The first words I hear in the Morning are Mum from 3 little but very different voices. This starts from as early as 5.30 am and this continues…all day long.
My life as mum started on the 21st of June 2009 when I had my daughter Gracie. She wasn’t exactly planned but I knew I could never lose her. My pregnancy was great apart from suffering from Sciatica in the second trimester. She was born on Fathers day, 4 days early, via an emergency C-Section. She had become distressed and the Doctors realised she was really tiny. She weighed 4 lb 12 oz at 39 weeks, this wasn’t right. I was informed by the surgeon that my placenta had stopped working, around 6 weeks before, no one had any idea why. Thankfully she was absolutely perfect.
It’s amazing how much I loved such a tiny little person, my heart ached. I didn’t sleep at all that night, I just stared at her in amazement, watching her breath. We created this beautiful little girl.
So…it happened again on the 26th April 2012. Archie is my rainbow baby, I had suffered a miscarriage a few months before I fell for him. This pregnancy was the pregnancy we all dream of. I was glowing, only put on a stone and a half and felt amazing. He was born via a VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Caesarean) for those who don’t know. I got to the hospital at 10 centimetres dilated and was rushed into a delivery room. Although the relaxed Jamaican midwife wasn’t in a rush to do an internal, she comforted me throughout my short labour.. Archie was born at a much healthier weight- 6 lb 12 oz.
I didn’t think I could love another tiny little person as much as my daughter, but oh was I wrong my heart just grew twice it’s size.
Now this is the story I tell everyone…
My third and FINAL pregnancy was the hardest. I went into premature labour at 32 weeks and had to be admitted into hospital. The results of the Fetal Fibronectic test came back positive. I needed the steroid injections for her lungs in case she decided to show an early appearance. This didn’t happen, I had contractions every day until the day she was born instead.
She was born the day before Bonfire Night, the 4th of November 2014. I was having pains, which was nothing unusual, but I decided to venture into my local town and go for a spot of shopping. I jumped on the bus, as I wasn’t driving then, and headed home with my then 2 year old son. I knew at that point I was in labour but I thought I had a few hours at least. My plan was to put the shopping away, tidy up and get some ironing done. Honestly what was I thinking? I tried ringing my mum, I got her colleague. I then knew an ambulance would probably be the best thing I could do with at that point. You know that feeling that you get when you need to push, yep I got that. My 2 year old son was in the front room watching Cbeebies, eating biscuits and drinking water . Thank you Cbeebies you kept him entertained. I was however, laying towels out on my bed ready to deliver her, I knew I was going to have an unplanned home birth just not with no medical assistance. My adrenaline took over and I delivered my baby on my bed , I helped guide her out. I actually got to see her enter this world. It was the most empowering moment of my life. I was so scared, but more for her, as I was helpless. My son, my superhero, came in to my bedroom, literally seconds after I had delivered her and said “Oh baby sister she’s here, shes’s so cute is she okay? ” He then went and got a blanket for me to cover his baby sister with. Her Grandad arrived just before the ambulance. I don’t know the precise time Casey was born but I know she was a healthy 6 lb 5 oz. Thankfully she was okay and we didn’t need to go to the hospital that day.
I knew this time I could love another tiny person just as much as my other 2, but I didn’t know how frightened I would be of losing her. I think it was her birth that made me feel this way.
I was the local celebrity for a couple of weeks, especially at my local hospital’s jaundice clinic. The paramedics had told other medical staff what had happened and it seemed everyone knew. I wasn’t complaining.
I have experienced every emotion becoming a mum, I’m sure some days when they do something new I can feel it all over again. That overwhelming love you just cant describe. I’m sure you know it.
I would absolutely love to hear your experiences on becoming a mum or your journey of motherhood.
P.s all my gorgeous pictures of my pregnancy and post birth pictures are all stored away, I must remember to get them out.
Lots of love
Charlotte
xx
Wow, three very different but equally exciting/dramatic birth stories. Amazing to read how it all happened and so glad all three were safe and healthy. Thanks for sharing #thelist
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Yes absolutely different in each way. Thank you all amazing little people now ❤️
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Popping by and reading again (mainly because I love those cute pictures!) for #twinklytuesday
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Thank you. xx
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Funny how differently the 3 of them arrived! My two were both at the hospital, my son was born in the bath, which they had run to relax me and help the pains. I’d planned a waterbirth but didn’t get one as they couldn’t fill the pool in time and had to empty the bath! My daughter arrived in 9 minutes, with shoulder dystocia and the cord around her neck. I lost 2 pints of blood as apparently it had all happened too fast, and it’s put me off ever having any more as I was so scared after that. It’s made me more grateful for having them, thank you for sharing your stories. X
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Wow well done you! I am put off too, my then midwife said the next one you have will be on a bus! x
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Wow, you are brave. I’d have passed out!! Three beautiful babies!
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Thank you, to be honest, my adrenaline just took over and I really had no choice. I had to just push…
xx
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Still think you were very brave!
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Wow, such vastly different experiences but all with such beautiful outcomes. That must have been vary scary going through it alone, but also kind of empowering afterwards. I had planned a natural water birth with my first but he decided to stay in the breech position. They were going to try and turn him but a scan showed low fluid levels and I was sent for a c-section within days. Before I got pregnant with my second I was determined that next time round I would have a VBAC and although no longer eligible for a midwifery led centre I would push for a water birth. When I did finally get pregnant again after numerous miscarriages I had this really irrational fear that if I went into labour something bad would happen and inexplicably so did my husband so we went for an elective c-section this time round and pushed for it to be done at 38 weeks instead of the standard 39. As I went under the knife it turns out my old scar tissue was actually starting to rupture and had I gone any longer we could have both died. Guess mother’s intuition really does exist!
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It was really empowering, but the real affects of what had happened with my youngest daughter didn’t kick in until a few weeks later. I had this irrational fear she wouldn’t be with us for long, or I wouldn’t see her grow up. I just couldn’t imagine her getting older. I still have this occasionally now.
Wow, a mothers intuition really does work. I’m so pleased all was okay.
xx
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Three very different but equally beautiful birth stories. I always love to hear about other women’s birthing experiences, I am always amazed at how our bodies just know what to do- just like with your unplanned home birth! Thank you sharing your stories and linking to #bigpinklink x
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Thank you for your lovely comment. If someone would of told me I would of had an unplanned, unassisted home birth I would of laughed. I mean it’s quite rare really as most women get to the hospital in time. xx
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Awwwww, these photos are amazing first of all!! What different experiences you had with all three, what gorgeous outcomes 🙂 xx #bigpinklink
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Thank you lovely. There were all equally different but all had some sort of issue. xx
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What beautiful children you have and blimey, their births have each put you through the ringer a bit! So pleased that they’re all happy and healthy. I have two girls and both were early, both were tiny (5lb 14 and 5lb 12 respectively). One was breech and so an ELCS, and my second was a VBAC which is the best thing I have ever, ever done. Birth stories make me shiver with emotion, I can’t get enough of them! Thank you for sharing yours. #TwinklyTuesday
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Thank you for your lovely comment. I too love reading birth stories. Oh tiny bubbas i’m glad all is okay with them. xxx
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Oh wow what a beautiful post. And little miss is super gorgeous. I love her crinkly newborn photos. I love thinking back to my birth stories although they weren’t straightforward. We did IVF both times and were told we only had a 10% chance of it working. We were and are so blessed as it did work despite the odds. Now I say thank you to the girls for choosing me to be their mummy every time I put them to bed. I’m featuring part 1 of our IVF story on my blog very soon if you’d like to read about it #dreamteam
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Thank you for such a lovely comment. Wow that’s amazing, of course I would love to read it. It just goes to show miracles do happen! xx
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You’re very welcome. I’m sure your writing has encouraged lots of nice comments. Very well deserved. X Sunita
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What an inspiring read, I wasn’t expecting your ending. It’s lovely to read about all your different experiences. Thank you so much for linking up to the #dreamteam xx
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Thank you xxx
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Aww such a lovely post about my gorgeous nieces and nephew! It’s so weird how each birth was so different from the other and I still think it’s amazing that you had little miss at home and that Archie just stayed watching tv hehe! Thanks for linking up with #TwinklyTuesday
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Thank you lovely, yes it was all so different but all so amazing. You will be just fine with the next bubba. We all can’t wait to meet him.
Babyscribbles xx
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Theses kids are adorable how cute 🙂 such a beautiful post. Pixie xx http://pixieox.co
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Thank you. xx
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Wow these are so different births! They’re all so cute too X
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Thank you Becca, yes all so different but totally amazing. xx
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Lovely blog, brought a tear to my eye, thanks for sharing. I’m pregnant with number 2, after a prolonged labour with number 1 – start stop for 6 days, I’m hoping this next one makes a quicker appearance…hopefully I’ll make it to the birthing centre through x
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Ah thank you so much for your lovely comment, I really appreciate it. Ooh congratulations and good luck. I have my fingers crossed for you. xxx
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Wow. You are a hero mum. I swear. Your story is so empowering and amazing.
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Thank you for your amazing comment. It really is lovely whtn I complemented on something that is completely natural but an extraordinary thing to go through-whether your on your own or not xx
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